Several years ago in San Diego, I found myself doing what so many of us do—I was venting to a friend about everything that was going wrong in my role as VP of the Northeast. She listened patiently for a good half hour, and then she said something that stopped me in my tracks: “Lynette, I hear what you don’t want… and I’m wondering—what is it that you do want?” I was stunned by her insight. Even more stunned […]
There are moments in life when everything feels busy and unclear at the same time. You may be active, responsible, and engaged, yet still feel unsettled beneath the surface. Decisions feel heavier than usual. Your energy feels scattered. You sense that something important wants your attention, but it hasn’t fully taken shape yet. In times like these, clarity rarely comes from pushing forward. It comes from pausing long enough to listen. Very often, what is […]
Inspired by Brian Tracy’s timeless goal-setting exercise If you’ve worked with me for any length of time, you know I’m a big believer in clarity. Clarity precedes confidence. Confidence precedes action. But so often, we skip right to the how before we’ve ever taken a breath to ask ourselves, What do I truly want? One exercise I often use with everyone comes from the brilliant Brian Tracy. It’s deceptively simple, but it cuts through the noise of everyday life. […]
Why Success Keeps Slipping Away Success isn’t hiding from you. It’s not bad luck, the wrong timing, or Mercury in retrograde. More often than not, the reason you’re not hitting your goals is simple: you’re getting in your own way. This is called self-sabotage. It’s when you unconsciously (or sometimes very consciously) derail your own progress through procrastination, excuses, or distractions. Buying the planner instead of using it. Researching for weeks instead of starting. Binge-scrolling instead […]
These are the five steps to learning. I wrote them down over thirty years ago, in the middle of a strategy course that shifted my entire perspective. They’ve stayed with me ever since. They are etched into the way I teach, coach, lead, and live. It’s a simple framework, but one that explains why people are so afraid to take on new beginnings. Whether it’s learning to draw, riding a bike for the first time, […]
In our fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in external achievements—titles, accolades, and milestones. However, true fulfillment often stems from an internal journey: the pursuit of self-awareness and personal growth. The Power of Self-Awareness Self-awareness is the cornerstone of personal development. It involves a deep understanding of our emotions, motivations, and behaviors. By recognizing our strengths and areas for improvement, we can make conscious choices that align with our values and aspirations. Navigating […]
When you're in a position of leadership, both the amount and quality of your work output depend on your team and, consequently, your skills as a leader. Luckily, these skills can be developed. All it takes is learning the keys to effective leadership and practicing them. Becoming an effective leader is certainly not an overnight task, but what's really going to matter is consistency in the process. A good starting point is using the following […]
Perhaps aside from the most successful people in the world, we all sabotage ourselves. Some wait until they’re close to success, while others sabotage themselves before they even take the first step. The causes are the same regardless of when it occurs. The world is tough enough without taking on the role of the greatest obstacle you face in life. You’re also the toughest opponent to beat. Hardly anyone addresses this issue in their own […]
Most of us aren't experiencing the level of success we desire. It's easy to see what successful people do. However, it can be challenging to notice the things successful people avoid. Avoiding the common success mistakes improves your odds of attaining higher levels of achievement. Avoid these common mistakes on the road to success: Success is a twisting road with many obstacles. It's easy to become discouraged. The most successful people know what they want […]
