Have you ever noticed that the biggest turning points in life often begin with a single question? Not an answer. A question. For most of my life, I thought strength meant having the answers. Today, I believe strength begins the moment we become willing to admit that we don't know what we don't know. When we don't know something exists, we don't even think to ask about it. Without questions, we remain stuck with the […]

“I do not compete with anyone but myself.” Competing and comparing caused me more pain than almost anything else when I was young. There was always someone prettier, richer, or more successful. Someone with a better marriage. And there was always someone who had less. Eventually, I realized that comparison is a race with no finish line. I began paying attention to who I was being in my own life. Instead of measuring myself against […]